I was a tech
ie. Not an IT techie, a theatrical techie. A stagehand. During and right after college I worked backstage in the theatre (yes, it’s spelled t-h-e-a-t-r-e). And one of the most important lessons I learned, along with never whistling backstage, was, “Never cut what you can untie.” Usually we were talking about ropes, but it could also have been lighting cables, wires, and other things. My favorite professor at college, and one of my earliest mentors, was John E. Vestal and in addition to teaching lighting and other courses he was the theatre’s tech director. He was from South Carolina and had many colorful expressions which I won’t repeat here but never cut what you can untie stuck with me.
During my career in HR I lost count of the times managers stormed into my office demanding that someone be fired. This is what I called a short-term solution to a long-term problem. The problem usually wasn’t the employee’s poor performance. Usually, it had more to do with the manager’s frustration at managing the employee. Because they hadn’t been managing the employee. They’d never been taught how to manage people. They hadn’t taken the time to actually meet with them and set expectations and come to an agreement on what good performance looked like. The manager hadn’t given regular and ongoing feedback to the employee on their performance, or solicited any feedback from the employee either. At this point, they just wanted to cut them.
Whenever an employee leaves, either voluntarily or involuntarily, it represented a failure. If it was a voluntary exit, a resignation from someone we’d prefer not to lose, then somewhere the organization had failed to either develop, motivate, or recognize the employee’s contribution. If it was involuntary, a warranted termination for poor or unacceptable performance, what hadn’t we done to ensure that the employee was prepared and able to succeed.
Cutting the person was the knee-jerk reaction. Unraveling the knot will take time. And most managers choose not to invest that time. One thing I can guarantee when it comes to properly managing employees is that it’s messy and it takes time. Most managers don’t want to invest the time and get into that mess. Either because they don’t know how, they’ve been negatively impacted by it in the past and don’t want to go there again, or they’re scared of repercussions if they act. So cut them. Quick and easy. And costly.
Except it’s never really quick or easy. And it’s always costly. It takes time, energy, and sometimes money to get rid of an employee. The cost of replacement is usually higher than the cost of improving the employee’s poor performance. Retention is the most cost-effective form of recruiting. Managers and leaders need to be given the tools and education to effectively get the most out of their employees. If they aren’t, we’ll never be able to unravel that knot.
Knot photo by Pascal van de Vendel













